Friday, March 19, 2010

Like a Timex……

Six years ago my kids gave me Herbie for Mother’s Day.  (and that’s a whole other story for another day!)  He was approximately 12 at the time……(see above.  a totally other story…)  He hasn’t had the use of his back legs or any feeling from his midsection back for about 5 years.  Five years of an incontinent paralyzed dog takes a heavy toll on carpet.  Five years of any dog would take a heavy toll.  We were always reluctant to replace it though, thinking that he probably wouldn’t live much longer.  As awful as the carpet looked, it did serve him well because he could get good traction with his two good legs and get enough momentum to get himself into the kitchen faster than anyone whenever the refrigerator door opened.  We finally had to replace the carpet- it had become just so awful that I didn’t want to invite anyone in.  We knew that this would be the final blow to Herbie’s limited mobility and it made us sad, but we just couldn’t wait any longer.  We have lovingly carried him to the living room window this week where he likes to spend his days and put him in his bed there or on a blanket and then moved him when we got home in the evening to give him a change of scenery.    Except for yesterday.  K came home from school and found him in the kitchen.  We were just sure that DH had moved him there when he got home from work, but not so.  DH reports that when he opened a cabinet in the kitchen , Herbie heard the peanut butter jar being opened up and he elbow crawled in there faster than DH could make a sandwich! 

This boy does indeed take a licking and keeps on kicking.

Thursday, March 18, 2010

Wednesday Link Love

I’d like the whole village, please.  This family makes such nice stuff.

Fun (and easy) little wreath for the tea lover.

Fun little pattern!

Ever in the pursuit of portable beds around here, I was most excited about this cool bed that my friend Suzanne showed me. Be sure to click on the video on the right of the screen. And then I saw this on Craig’s list this week. Be sure to click on the demo button on it too.  Mostly I just dream of having a thousand bucks and a truck and a fantasy trip to Ikea for a couple of these.

A very easy way to make grocery shopping more fun for everyone.

I want someone to just once be this glad to see me!

Another fun and easy idea.

Oh, I would love to get one of these started in Louisville.

I’m a sucker for those Newberry Award books.  I should join the project.

This sounds like a tasty treat.

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Happy Birthday

Sara McReynolds

Today is the birthday of my beautiful niece Sara.  I would not be 17 again for any amount of money, but then I was not nearly as amazing at 17 as she is.  Every day she grows stronger and more beautiful.  One of my very favorite moments in this past year was watching her speak truth to power when she addressed the Metro Council.   I know her, and I know her knees were probably shaking, but she looked at them all unflinchingly and told them that when girls do not get the education they need, they become invisible.   Sara knows what God requires, and  she lives it.  She does indeed do justice, loves mercy, and walks humbly with her God.

Nested

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Now that all of the furniture has been returned to the room it belongs in, and I’ve mopped and mopped layers of grit and sawdust…..

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and the Valentines decorations have been put up and spring and Easter have shown up……

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and I’ve had a chance to sit in my rocker and listen to the sounds of my home…..

 

I have come back to my better self, my kinder self.  May my family forgive (or forget) the one who gets pretty irritable during a home improvement project.

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Monday, March 15, 2010

Evolving

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My young grandson rides with me

as I mow the day’s first swath

of the hillside pasture,

and then he rambles the woods beyond

the field’s edge, emerging

from the trees to wave, and I wave back

remembering that I too once

played at field’s edge and waved

to an old workman who went moving by,

waving back to me as he passed.

Wendell Berry, Leavings

Saturday, March 13, 2010

Embrace

Last weeks word- better late than never- Embrace

Where Is God? By Mark Nepo

It’s as if what is unbreakable--

the very pulse of life--waits for

everything else to be torn away,

and then in the bareness that

only silence and suffering and great love can expose,

it dares to speak through us and to us.

It seems to say, if you want to last,

hold on to nothing.

If you want to know love,

let in everything.

If you want to feel the presence of everything,

stop counting the things that break along the way

Pillars

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Quite possibly, our breakfast on Saturday would never have managed to happen had it not been for facebook. What a wonderful time with the best of the best of friends- so dear to me that even looking at this picture feels so tender and makes me want to cry. I often talk about how unhappy my high school years were, how I never felt that I completely fit in. Yet in looking back I realize that some of the great pillars of my life became my friends during those awkward painful years, and I’d do it all again as long as I knew that Sandy and Dana would do it with me.

A loyal friend laughs at your jokes when they're not so good, and sympathizes with your problems when they're not so bad.

~Arnold H. Glasgow

Soul-mates are people who bring out the best in you. They are not perfect but are always perfect for you.

~Author Unknown

In everyone's life, at some time, our inner fire goes out. It is then burst into flame by an encounter with another human being. We should all be thankful for those people who rekindle the inner spirit. ~Albert Schweitzer

It takes a long time to grow an old friend.

~John Leonard

Ah, how good it feels! The hand of an old friend.

~Henry Wadsworth Longfellow